reconcile

(verb) make (one thing) compatible with (another). Synonyms: accommodate, conciliate. Example: "The scientists had to accommodate the new results with the existing theories."

(verb) bring into consonance or accord. Synonyms: harmonize, harmonise. Example: "Harmonize one's goals with one's abilities."

(verb) come to terms. Synonyms: patch up, make up, conciliate, settle. Example: "After some discussion we finally made up."

(verb) accept as inevitable. Synonyms: resign, submit. Example: "He resigned himself to his fate."