disobliging

(verb) to cause inconvenience or discomfort to. Synonyms: trouble, put out, inconvenience, disoblige, discommode, incommode, bother. Example: "Sorry to trouble you, but...."

(verb) ignore someone's wishes. Synonyms: disoblige.

(adj) intentionally unaccommodating. Synonyms: uncooperative. Example: "The action was not offensive to him but proved somewhat disobliging."